Tuesday, 26 October 2010

Getting Out of the Shit Hole

I blogged on my birthday, that I was/ am in a rough patch and shit hole.
Clinically depressed to the physician.
To my loved ones, it's mid-life crisis or midlife transition.
After I go through all of them... guess this shit hole phase will be over.

Carl Jung identified 5 main phases of midlife:

  • Accommodation (meeting others' expectations - actually, this takes place in the first part of life, but is the context in which midlife processes take place)
  • Separation (rejecting the accommodated self)
  • Liminality (a period of uncertainty, where life seems directionless and meanders)
  • Reintegration (working out 'who I am' and becoming comfortable with that identity)
  • Individuation (facing up to and accepting the undesirable aspects of our own character)

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